A very adorable and genuine person responded to my question of what he thought beauty, real beauty was.


"I think everybody is beautiful in their own special way. Fat, tall, skinny, short, missing a finger, leg, etc. But its not just whats on the outside, because you can think someone is the most beautiful person on earth, then they get old and they aren't as good looking as they used to and you're stuck with their personality. If they don't have a beautiful personality then they become... ugly. Sexy can be anything good about a person. They can have a nice accent, lips, hair, eyes. They could be charming or very kind. You don't need makeup, you don't have to wear short shorts and tight revealing clothes to be beautiful. That's just throwing bait to the scared little fish that dont want to come see whats going on unless you show a little more. All the "hot" models in magazines just give pressure on women and sometimes men to have a nice body and be skinny and some get nervous about it and try too hard and end up just gaining more weight from worrying too much about looking good. Skinny, apparently is healthy, but not too skinny. Theres people unfortunately who are a little too big, but that doesn't make them ugly, they just have extra junk in the trunk. We all need someone to love and be loved by, and if we really want that person to come we have to be ourselves. Your true self has to be beautiful to someone out there, but if you try too hard to make yourself up and diet and act differently to look better and make friends with maybe the wrong people, they dont have to be bad, just not right, you may have a much harder time finding them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different views of what is beautiful and what isn't, and its hard to change everyone so they think the same way, so lets not. Friends don't always have to be good looking, so if you refuse a friendship because they arent pretty or handsome that isn't right. For a significant other, well, if you really want someone good looking thats fine, but make sure they are beautiful on the inside aswell and that they are sincere and honest, because people can change quickly and suddenly become the worst person ever once you decide to tie the knot.

I think I'm beautiful and people tell me I am. If anyone puts you down and tells you negative things and points out all your flaws dont listen to them, but then don't be the "i dont give a shit about what anybody says to me" person. Accept constructive criticism and consider whether theres really anything wrong with you in that aspect or not. Listen to the good things people say. Every day I go to school and people yell things at me from behind, make fun of me, and talk about me behind my back. If they don't hurt me physicaly I'll be fine. They're just insecure and think they look tough or cooler than me by putting me down. As Chris Crocker says to guys, girls dont think you are MACHO when you make fun of gay people, and really I think it applies to guys that make fun of any group of people. If the girl thinks thats cute or something then theres something wrong with her! But again, we all have our likes and dislikes and eventually we'll learn the right thing for us. Hopefuly."Thankyou :]
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